The Use of Envy

Who does not know this gnawing feeling of envy? We envy the good marks of our classmates, the nice dress of our neighbour or the new love of our friend. Envy in Christianity is one of the seven deadly sins and also in our every day life it is considered to be one of the bad feelings. But to be envied can be a very sweet, pleasant feeling: your own wealth gains import when others envy you for it.

But there are also positives sides to the feeling of envy. Envy can point out inequity, for example that the gap between poor or rich gets wider and wider. But I think envy could be positive in a different sense as well, namely when I find out, what my envy says about me. To achieve this, we first have to admit, that we envy someone for something. This seems often rather difficult, because envy is considered a bad feeling and we would have to admit, that someone else is superior to us. Instead of being honest to ourselves, we often tend to run down the envied person and his/her achievements. Our classmate only got the good grade, because the teacher favours him/her.

But behind the envy is a desire. This desire can be a motivation. When I envy my classmate for his/her good grades, it could motivate me to work harder to achieve the same. But often I am actually not willing to really work harder to achieve the same as the envied person. Maybe I could use the feeling of envy to find out what I really want, what my “true desires are”. That what I envy is not necessarily what I am missing. Hence, when I question my envy, it might bring me to my authentic self, to my real desires.